How To Set Goals And Achieve Them – 15 Steps To Success!
How goal-setting theory can help you stay motivated!
Be honest.. How many times have you set a bunch of goals you feel super motivated about in the moment, only to find yourself losing interest and falling off the wagon not long after?
If you’re here, reading this post, you can probably relate to having multiple lists of impressive goals you have yet to do anything about. We’ve all been there, and you’re not alone!
But why does this keep happening? Achieving a goal has a lot to do with how it was set in the first place and how it’s managed along the way. It may sound complicated, but it’s actually pretty simple.
Goal setting is an essential skill that, like other skills, can be learned and honed with a bit of practice. Our powerful 15-step method draws a sprinkle of inspiration from goal-setting theory, a theory developed in 1968 by Edwin Locke.
What is goal-setting theory? Goal setting theory suggests that how you set and execute your goals can affect your motivation, performance, and overall success. In other words, goal-setting theory can help you set effective goals and show you how to best achieve them!
Here we share our step-by-step guide to help you set (and achieve) your goals:
1) Assess your current situation
Look at every area of your life (or the areas you want to focus on) and accurately describe what this area currently looks like.
What is happening in your current reality? How does it make you feel? What negative habits or behaviors are associated with this situation? What don’t you like about it?
Be as honest with yourself as possible. This is your point A or starting point.
2) Identify Your Objectives
The next step is to clarify what you want to achieve. Now that you know what you want to work on and where you’re starting from, it’s time to decide where you’re going (this is your point B).
Where do you want to be? What do you want to change? How do you want to feel? What do you want to have/be/do? Be super specific about the result.
According to goal-setting theory, setting clear and specific goals is key to staying motivated. It provides a clear direction and a target to aim for, which leads to better focus and overall effort.
Determine which goals are most important to you and prioritize them. Focus on a few key objectives at a time to avoid spreading yourself too thin.

3) Challenge yourself
The art of goal-setting is the ability to strike a balance between how attainable and how challenging a goal is. On the one hand, it makes sense to set an achievable goal.
However, it’s important to also go after aspirations that challenge you and (maybe) scare you a little.
Goal-setting theory suggests challenging goals are far more motivating than super easy or vague goals. A difficult goal can push you to step out of your comfort zone, stretch your capabilities, and put in extra effort to achieve them.
4) Use the SMART criteria to refine your goals
- Specific: Clearly define what you want to achieve and make it as detailed as possible.
- Measurable: Set quantifiable milestones to track and evaluate your progress.
- Achievable: Ensure your goals are attainable for you at this time (but still challenging).
- Relevant: Align your goals with your values, long-term objectives, and what really matters to YOU.
- Time-bound: Set a deadline or time frame to set a more specific target to work for.

5) Write Them Down
Now that you have clearly defined and refined goals, make sure to write them down! Putting your goals in writing makes them more concrete and increases your commitment to achieving them. Use a notebook, journal, or digital tool to record your goals.
6) Committing to your goals
Goal-setting theory emphasizes the importance of being committed to your goals. Committing to a goal you’ve set makes you much more likely to persist when the going gets tough.
So how do you commit to your goals? By finding out why you want to achieve them. Next to each goal you’ve written down, brainstorm why you want to achieve that goal. How would you feel if you achieved it? How would your life change?
Connect to the real reasons behind wanting these things.

7) Break Them Into Actionable Steps & Create a Plan
This step is all about goal planning. A challenging goal will seem like a pretty steep mountain to climb when you first start.
Divide your goals into smaller tasks or milestones to prevent feeling overwhelmed. This makes progress more manageable and helps you stay on track.
You need a practical and reliable roadmap to guide you from where you are to where you want to be. Develop a detailed action plan for each goal. Outline the steps you must take, the resources required, and any potential challenges you might face.
Goal-setting theory recognizes that motivation and performance can vary depending on the complexity of the task, so make sure your actionable steps are simple and well-defined.
8) Create Habits & Systems
Now that you have your goal blueprints on paper, it’s time to create and solidify the habits that will help you achieve them. Brainstorm some habits that are going to support your actionable steps.
For example, if your goal is to run a 5k, an actionable step may look like going for a run every morning. A habit like setting out your running clothes the night before will support that actionable step.
Do it enough times, and an actionable step (like going for a run) eventually becomes a habit that will propel you toward bigger fitness goals.
Having a list of supportive habits is essential, but what about the logistics? How and when will you fit them into your daily life? How will they work together? How will you make sure to follow through on them? This is where systems come in.
Creating systems can take it one step further by defining how your habits will work together to fit into your daily life. For instance, if your actionable step is eating healthy meals every day, and the habits you need to support that step are meal planning, grocery shopping, and meal prepping once a week, your system will define how you ultimately get those things done.
For example, you might plan to write your shopping list every Friday, hit the grocery store early on Saturday morning, and spend Sunday afternoon meal-prepping for the week.
Without a system, you’re left with a list of things you must do and no clarity about how and when you will do them.
Related: How to Build Habits that Actually Stick!
9) Find enjoyment in the process
Of course, eventually achieving the end result will be very sweet, but it’s also incredibly important to find enjoyment in the journey itself.
If you hate every minute of the process, chances are you will be more likely to quit when things get a little difficult.
Think about who you are becoming in this process and everything you’re gaining through the journey, other than the actual goal itself.

10) Visualize success
Imagine yourself achieving your goals. Visualizing success can increase your motivation and confidence, making it easier to overcome obstacles. Who do you have to become in order to achieve your goal?
Create a vision board to motivate you and help you embody this energy.
Related: How To Create A Powerful Vision Board That Works
11) Set Metrics for Progress Tracking
Goal-setting theory suggests that feedback on progress is vital for maintaining motivation. How will you stay motivated and on track if you’re unaware of your progress?
Establish specific metrics to track your progress. Regularly assess how far you’ve come and adjust your plan if needed.
12) Stay Accountable
Goal-setting theory states that making goals public can improve accountability and motivation. Share your goals with a friend, family member, or mentor who can provide support and hold you accountable.
Consider joining a group or community with similar objectives while trying to steer clear of those who aren’t supportive of your goal.

13) Stay Flexible
Life is unpredictable, and circumstances may change along the way. Being open to adjusting your goals or processes (if necessary) is a huge strength. Adaptability is key to long-term success.
14) Celebrate Achievements
Acknowledge your successes, even the small ones. Celebrating milestones reinforces positive behavior and boosts your motivation.
Goal-setting theory suggests that recognition and rewards for goal achievement can boost your motivation and keep you on track long-term.
Rewarding yourself also gives you something to look forward to – remember that you deserve to treat yourself after all your hard work!

15) Learn from Setbacks
Don’t let setbacks or failures get you down. Instead, view them as opportunities to learn and grow. Analyze what went wrong and use these insights to improve your approach.
Remember that goal setting is an ongoing process. Regularly review your objectives, make necessary adjustments, and set new goals as you progress.
And there you have it, 15 steps to setting and achieving goals! By incorporating these principles into your goal-setting practices, you can expect to enhance your motivation, performance, and success, and you’ll be well on your way to achieving your most challenging goals. Get ready to finally tick those dreams off the list!
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